We and our parents

There was a huge Apple tree...
A Little boy loved to play with it
He Love to clomb the tree, love to eat apples...love to take the nap under its shadow
Times went on...
The Boy grew up...
And he no longer play around the tree
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One day the boy came....

The Tree asked him..
"Hi..
Come and Play with me.."

The boy relied..
" I m not a kid. I don't play around tree"

"I play with toys. I need money to buy toys."

The Tree said... "I Don't have money but you can take all my apples and sell it .
You will get the MONEY."

The boy picked all the apples of the tree and went...
He sold the apples and gotmoney... he bought lots of toys...
But he didn't turn back...
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The Tree was again sad...
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One day again the boy came, he became a young man now......

The Tree said... "HI...Why Are you sad? Come and Sit under my shadow...
I m feeling very lonely without you..."

The by said...
"I don't have time...
I work for my family...
I want to build Home for them... I Need money..."

The Tree said.. "I don't have money... You can take my Branches and Trunk... and build you home..."

The Boy Became Happy...
He cut all the branches and trunk of the tree

And built a home for him......

Again the tree became alone..
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The boy didn't turned back..
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Time passes on ..

After Long time the boy came back..
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He was so old...
Looking sad ...
Tired...
And Lonely..

The Tree asked him.. " Why are you Sad..
I Wish .. I can help you...

...but I Don't have Apples.. I don't have branches... Even
I don't have Shadow...
Nothing to Offer you...

The Boy (Old man) Replied...
" I am tired of my life...
I am alone..."
..." I just need you ...
Can I sit down at your roots."
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The Boy (Old man) sit down .. Both were happy & weeping...

Is the boy really cruel and selfish ??
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No...
We all are like him...
And treating our parent like that...

The tree is like our parent
We love to play them when we were kids...
We leave them alone...and come only when...
We are in need or in trouble

We don't have Time for our Parent...

No matter what, parent will always give everything...

To make us happy and solve our problems...
And in return what they want....
Just our company !

Please love to your parent...
Don't forget them...
Give them Time...
Give them your company...
They will be happy by seeing you happy....

Please don't leave you parent...
Gratitude them...
One can gets Child as many as he want, but parent he gets only once...

90/10 Principle--- How You react on the situation- Its decide Your whole day and even whole Life.

90/10 Principle

By: Steven Covey

Have you read this before?
Discover the 90/10 Principle. It will change your life (at least the way you react to situations). What is this principle?

10% of life is made up of what happens to you. 90% of life is decided by how you react. What does this mean?

We really have no control over 10% of what happens to us. We cannot stop the car from breaking down. The plane will be late arriving, which throws our whole schedule off. A driver may cut us off in traffic. We have no control over this 10%. The other 90% is different. You determine the other 90%.

How? By your reaction. You cannot control a red light. However, you can control your reaction. Do not let people fool you; YOU can control how you react.

Let us use an example: You are eating breakfast with your family. Your daughter knocks over a cup of coffee onto your business shirt. You have no control over what just what happened. What happens when the next will be determined by how you react. You curse. You harshly scold your daughter for knocking the cup over.

She breaks down in tears. After scolding her, you turn to your spouse and criticize her for placing the cup too close to the edge of the table. A short verbal battle follows. You storm upstairs and change your shirt. Back downstairs, you find your daughter has been too busy crying to finish breakfast and get ready for school. She misses the bus. Your spouse must leave immediately for work.

You rush to the car and drive your daughter to school. Because you are late, you drive 40 miles an hour in a 30 mph speed limit. After a 15-minute delay and throwing $60 traffic fine away, you arrive at school. Your daughter runs into the building without saying goodbye. After arriving at the office 20 minutes late, you find you forgot your briefcase. Your day has started terrible. As it continues, it seems to get worse and worse. You look forward to coming home, When you arrive home, you find small wedge in your relationship with your spouse and daughter.

Why? Because of how you reacted in the morning. Why did you have a bad day?

A) Did the coffee cause it?

B) Did your daughter cause it?

C) Did the policeman cause it?

D) Did you cause it?

The answer is “D”.

You had no control over what happened with the coffee. How you reacted in those 5 seconds is what caused your bad day. Here is what could have and should have happened.

Coffee splashes over you. Your daughter is about to cry. You gently say, "Its ok honey, you just need, to be more careful next time". Grabbing a towel, you rush upstairs. After grabbing a new shirt and your briefcase, you come back down in time to look through the window and see your child getting on the bus. She turns and waves. You arrive 5 minutes early and cheerfully greet the staff. Your boss comments on how good the day you are having.

Notice the difference?

Two different scenarios. Both started the same. Both ended different.

Why? Because of how you REACTED.

You really do not have any control over 10% of what happens. The other 90% was determined by your reaction.

Here are some ways to apply the 90/10 principle.

If someone says something negative about you, do not be a sponge. Let the attack roll off like water on glass. You do not have to let the negative comment affect you! React properly and it will not ruin your day. A wrong reaction could result in losing a friend, being fired, getting stressed out etc.

How do you react if someone cuts you off in traffic?

Do you lose your temper?

Pound on the steering wheel? A friend of mine had the steering wheel fall

Off)

Do you curse?

Does your blood pressure skyrocket?

Do you try to bump them?

WHO CARES if you arrive ten seconds later at work? Why let the cars ruin your drive.

Remember the 90/10 principle, and do not worry about it.

You are told you lost your job. Why lose sleep and get irritated? It will work out. Use your worrying energy and time into finding another job.

The plane is late; it is going to mangle your schedule for the day. Why take out your frustration on the flight attendant? She has no control over what is going on. Use your time to study, get to know the other passenger.

Why are stressed out? It will just make

Things worse. Now you know the 90-10 principle. Apply it and you will be amazed at the results. You will lose nothing if you try it.

The 90-10 principle is incredible. Very few know and apply this principle.

The result? Millions of people are suffering from undeserved stress, trials, problems and heartache.

We all must understand and apply the 90/10 principle.

It CAN change Everbody’s life!

Speech by Bryan Dyson (CEO of Coca Cola)

"Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five
balls in the air. You name them - work, family, health,
friends and spirit and you're keeping all of these in the
air.

You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.

If you drop it, it will bounce back.

But the other four Balls - family, health, friends and
spirit - are made of glass. If you drop one of these; they
will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even
shattered. They will never be the same. You must understand
that and strive for Balance in your life."

Wisdom lies in not what you can look at, but in what u can overlook

Unconditional Love

A story is told about a soldier who was finally coming home after having fought in Vietnam. He called his parents from San Francisco.

"Mom and Dad, I'm coming home, but I've a favor to ask. I have a friend I'd like to bring home with me."


"Sure," they replied, "we'd love to meet him."


"There's something you should know the son continued, "he was hurt pretty badly in the fighting. He stepped on a land mine and lost an arm and a leg. He has nowhere else to go, and I want him to come live with us."


"I'm sorry to hear that, son. Maybe we can help him find somewhere to live."


"No, Mom and Dad, I want him to live with us."

"Son," said the father, "you don't know what you're asking. Someone with such a handicap would be a terrible burden on us. We have our own lives to live, and we can't let something like this interfere with our lives. I think you should just come home and forget about this guy. He'll find a way to live on his own."

At that point, the son hung up the phone. The parents heard nothing more from him. A few days later, however, they received a call from the San Francisco police. Their son had died after falling from a building, they were told. The police believed it was suicide. The grief-stricken parents flew to San Francisco and were taken to the city morgue to identify the body of their son. They recognized him, but to their horror they also discovered something they didn't know, their son had only one arm and one leg.

The parents in this story are like many of us. We find it easy to love those who are good-looking or fun to have around, but we don't like people who inconvenience us or make us feel uncomfortable. We would rather stay away from people who aren't as healthy, beautiful, or smart as we are. Thankfully, there's someone who won't treat us that way. Someone who loves us with an unconditional love that welcomes us into the forever family, regardless of how messed up we are.